Before Amalia I got pregnant with twin boys six years ago. Unfortunately I started dilating way too early and my babies were born at only 20 weeks. Since their lungs were not mature enough my babies did not make it. This was the worst experience I had been through but with God’s help, my husband, family and friends I was able to go back to work and go on with life.
Then I got pregnant again and again I started dilating just like I did with my baby boys and I ended up having a cerclage which is also known as a cervical stitch, or treatment for cervical weakness, when the cervix starts to shorten and open too early during a pregnancy causing either a late miscarriage or preterm birth.
Fortunately this was done in time and I was able to hold Amalia for 36 weeks. The same procedure was done for my two other babies.
I share this in case there is someone out there reading this that has gone through the same situation and does not know why. Thankfully an Obstetrician found the problem and offered hope for me to have babies. I Will forever be thankful to him and obviously to God for giving me the chance to be a mother.
If you are experiencing this I want to tell you not to give up. Have faith and keep praying because God has blessings in disguise.
After getting the cerclage, my husband and I decided it was better for me to stay home with my baby. Since then I have been a stay at home mom.